Bo Dixon (AKA: Tom A_____) (cont.)
Every once in a blue moon I get a random email about Bo Dixon. But today I got both an email _and_ an message on bear411 (unrelated) asking me to enter a chat to discuss him.

Very odd timing... here's the email:

From: XXXXXXX@aol.com
Date: Sun, 2 Mar 2008 13:24:41 EST
Subject: Bo Dixon AKA Tom A

I read what you wrote about Tom and he is a total messed up guy. I was with him once and that is all it took to know what a liar he really is. He cannot tell the truth. I just heard from a friend of mine that Tom is still in San Jose, CA. He has changed his Bodybuilding.com profile to say he is in Charlotte, North Carolina as a system administrator when if fact he is hustling a guy in San Jose Gurbaksh Chahal (Indian Panjab) for thousands of dollars a week and he is calling it personal training. He will use anyone he can, whenever he can. Just thought you might like to know.



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The guy was beautiful physically. Too bad he is such a mess inside his head. I will have to second the liar part. Everything he told me... every story... every everything that I've been able to check up on him turned out to be a complete fabrication.

That was just my experience with Tom.

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As if this day couldn't get any weirded. I got a random message from some guy on bear411. He wanted to talk to me about Bo Dixon (Tom A.).. so I dropped into Yahoo Messenger to see what he had to say:


XXXXXmuscle: he made me think i was losing my mind

ME: why is that?

XXXXXmuscle: inconsistency of communication

ME: oh

XXXXXmuscle: weeks would go by with nothing
then love peoems on text
then hed want to move in when we hardly knew each other
then hed say we were going to fast

ME: yeah - so bo is moving back east/ turns out that's not the case according to the email i got today

XXXXXmuscle:
then hed say he wanted to do this right
then hed wantt o move in
then hed talk about moving away
then hed talk about all the things wed do togther this summer
why would he make up the NC thing ?

ME: look man - Tom is not right in the head. period.
don't even try to figure it out.

XXXXXXmuscle: i tried for years
then he gave me scabbies

ME: are you serious?

XXXXXXmuscle: yup

ME: that's disgusting. but at least it's treatable
i think it's treatable at least

XXXXmuscle: it is
denied it was him

ME: oh - he's a BIG whore (admitted that to me in person).
total power bottom
very much a hustler

XXXXmuscle: he is such a freak
never met anyone like him b4
he was getting a job offer from hitachi to stay in san jose last i knew
i never want to hear his voice again ever

ME: he was probably dating someone else man
you know he lived with matt right?

XXXXmuscle: yes
poor matt

ME: i heard matt kicked him out.

XXXXmuscle: he was calling me non -stop about me , about meeting me , about coming to LA

ME: according to that email i got today he's hustling some guy out in San Jose

XXXXmuscle: for months and months
then i hear he is in san jose nad has moved in with matt
i never heard from him for 6 months
then he started up again after matt kicked him out

XXXXmuscle: matt doesnt even want to hear his name
1st he wants to move in with me and then ive not heard from him in 5 weeks
which honestly is regulary happening over the past 2 years
he was dating me when he came to visit you by the way

ME: yeah - matt wants nothing to do with him anymore. poor matt is right. c ould you imagine getting messed up with that guy? i was lucky. only lasted 3 days with me.


Update: Since this got linked to from valleywag.com, if you want to read the whole story click here.